These People Are Gifts

Posted on January 14, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

these people are gifts


When I look back over my life I see so many people who played an important role in my becoming who I am today. Some of them taught me about life, some shared with me stories that made me feel more human, and some showed me how God loves us by mirroring that unconditional love, even if it were imperfectly. (more…)

Don’t Stay In Bed!

Posted on January 13, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

Man sleeping in bedThis morning, I called my youngest son THREE TIMES to get up and get ready for school. Do you think he got up and ran to me saying, “Here I am. You called me?” Not a chance. And he certainly didn’t respond with, “Your servant is listening.” In fact, he wasn’t listening at all. If it was God calling this morning instead of me, do you think then he might have responded? All I can say is, “Good luck, God!”

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Making Your Mark on the World

Posted on January 12, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

TracyDaughterYesterday was my daughter’s 16th birthday. What a time to reflect on all the years that have gone by, looking at photos, telling stories. She is now on the cusp of adulthood and soon she will be making choices that will impact her vocation in life. I look at here at want her to be happy. But I also want her to feel fulfilled in life. I want her to believe that she makes a difference in the world.

Of course, on her birthday, we all heard the news of David Bowie’s passing. He was creating up until the very end, touching people with his art. He certainly made his mark on the world. To have your art last and stand the test of time is quite a blessing.

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Filling the Water Jars

Posted on January 12, 2016 by - Connect! Sunday Reflection

For Sunday, January 17, 2016, 2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Heap of many terracotta clay pots

The Second Sunday of Ordinary Time presents us with the wedding miracle at Cana in John’s Gospel, continuing to center on the manifestation of the Lord, which was celebrated on the solemnity of the Epiphany. The feast of the Epiphany, the Baptism of the Lord, and the wedding miracle at Cana all clearly show us that Jesus is, in fact, the Son of God. The fact that divine power flows through Jesus, blessing humanity with God’s presence and acceptance, is paramount in all three of these celebrations.

God blesses humanity. This is really the point of the Incarnation, the Word becoming flesh. God is not apart from human beings but one with them. This is an awesome point to ponder. God does not necessarily come through extraordinary or “beyond” human experiences but in the very stuff of life. He blesses us with his accepting presence and uses all that is authentically human to show us his divine love.

Our first reading from the prophet Isaiah really hits the point home! Isaiah speaks of God’s relationship with his people using the language of endearment, tenderness, and love. Isaiah tells us: “No more shall people call you ‘Forsaken,’ or your land ‘Desolate,’ but you shall be called ‘My Delight,’ and your land ‘Espoused.’ For the LORD delights in you and makes your land his spouse… so shall your God rejoice in you.” What beautiful imagery is used to describe God’s relationship with us! This tender, caretaking, loving, and embracing God wants to show us something special about our human selves that may go unnoticed to our naked eyes. Using the eyes of faith, humanity bursts forth with divine life! All of those promptings toward life, love, joy, peace, hope, forgiveness, union, compassion, tenderness, and such are God trying to convince us that we are his delight! We are meant to rest in him.

I read a brief, almost unnoticed, article this past week about Gov. Andrew Cuomo signing an order requiring communities throughout the state of New York to take homeless people from the streets to shelters when temperatures reach freezing. In pondering this gesture, one can wonder if the homeless know that God rejoices in them. When starving, cold, empty, lonely, hurting, feeling forsaken and desolate does an individual think that anyone, let alone God, delights in him or her? The situation of homelessness throughout the world is a complicated one. Sadly, many truly believe that the problem would really correct itself if they only found a job.

One thing many don’t realize is that many homeless people do work! The work they can find and the work that they do certainly pays them an income but it is not sufficient to cover the cost of living effectively. Do we really believe the myth that a minimum wage job will provide an individual with housing? (For a more detailed analysis of this issue see:

Add to this problem issues with alcohol and drug addiction, mental illness, depression, lack of resources and support, and the “problem of homelessness” doesn’t look so simple anymore. But who is going to tell these folks that God delights in them? That is the task of folks like you and I who know and believe that God delights in all of his children! And, guess what? Here is the other best kept secret! The Incarnation tells us that as divine power and love flows through and out of Jesus it also can flow through and out of all of us! We need to roll up our sleeves and walk with the homeless for a while and share, not judge, their story! God shares all of our stories and does not judge.

But what can I do? What gifts do I have to share? St. Paul answers that very question for the Corinthian community in what is part of a very long response he gives to their questions. He tells us, “To each individual the manifestation of the Spirit is given for some benefit.” The Spirit is given to each individual. St. Paul does not say “some”! What gifts has the Spirit given you? And, the greater question to be asked is: how can you use those gifts to show all of God’s children that God delights in them and rejoices in them? No one person can resolve the situation of homelessness in our world. But if the issue can find its way on the agenda of every church in the world, we could certainly find ways to at least chip away at it!

We need to ensure that people’s needs are met before Psalm 96 can be found on the lips of all God’s children. “Sing to the LORD a new song… Sing to the LORD; bless his name… The LORD is king. He governs the peoples with equity.” When people are in pain, the pain robs them of their ability to see anything other than what has their attention. When a person is cold, one searches for warmth. When a person is hungry, one searches for food. People are not dispensable and everyone is worthy of the dignity given to them by God… it is their right.

Jesus could have ignored his mother’s intervention regarding the need for wine. “Woman, how does your concern affect me?” But he did not. Jesus did not allow the guests to go without and he took something ordinary and simple and made it into something extraordinary and beautiful—just like he does with each human soul and all God creates! But he asks for our cooperation because that is how the Spirit works. As we are told by St. Paul: “there are different forms of service but the same Lord.” Jesus needed people to fill the water jars and he needed servers to distribute the water made wine.

Not much has changed since that day and the desire and the request are the same. Jesus wishes to share God’s delight with all of his children in whatever way is necessary using whomever wishes to come forward and help. He needs some to fill the jars and others to distribute what is in them. We all have a part to play, even if it is being the one to request (or pray) for intervention. For many, life is too cold and it is too hard. It is not always their fault and there is no reason to condemn to a life on the street or a life without shelter. This is not God’s desire and it does not need to be… not here, not anywhere.

If life ever affords you the opportunity to truly look a person who is desolate or homeless in the eye, remember what you see. You will see the same thing you see when you look in your mirror. And if you see the same thing when you look at and receive the Eucharist in your parish, then you will know you are espoused and that we are connected with one another and with God in a most incredible way.

Rev. Mark S. Suslenko


God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory,
may you give to all Christians,
and especially to those entrusted with leadership in your Church,
the spirit of wisdom and revelation,
so that with the eyes of our hearts
we may see the hope to which you have called us:
one body and one Spirit, one Lord, one faith, one baptism,
one God and Father of all,
who is above and through all and in all.


—Prayer for the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, Graymoor Ecumenical & Interreligious Institute,

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Four Reasons Churches Don’t Change (Even When They Need To)

Posted on January 12, 2016 by - Vibrant Parish Toolkit

ChurchThere’s one difference between God and the Church: God doesn’t need to change. But, the most effective and successful churches are constantly changing. The message and the mission never change- that’s a God thing- but the methods and techniques we use to communicate that mission/message are in constant need of re-shaping to reach the ever-changing identity of the lost in every time and place.

Here are four real-life obstacles every church leader needs to be prepared for if you’re trying to transition your church.

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Pope Francis: “What is love?”

Posted on January 8, 2016 by - Vibrant Parish Toolkit

popeLove was the center of Pope Francis’ second daily homily after taking a break for Christmas, and is a word he said has become so casual that we no longer know exactly what we mean when we say it.

“This word ‘love’ is a word that is used so many times and when we use it we don’t know exactly what it means. What is love?” the Pope said during his Jan. 8 daily Mass in the Vatican’s Saint Martha guesthouse.

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Recapturing Baptism

Posted on January 7, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

BaptismWhen Jesus sought out the Baptism of John, it was not the same baptism that you and I receive. There was no sin to wash away and no dying and rising, but it was a profound new beginning, the start of a ministry that would lead to the death and resurrection into which we then are baptized.

After your baptism, what was your new life like? Do you not remember because you were a baby?

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All You Need is Love

Posted on January 6, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

loveEvery Christmas morning, as everyone takes turns opening presents, we play Christmas music in the background as the soundtrack for the event. This year I can’t be the only one that had changed it up a bit and something different playing on Christmas morning. Yes, it was the Beatles! Most of the Beatles catalog was made available for streaming on Christmas Eve on most major streaming services.

Of course, about an hour into the playlist, we heard the classic “All You Need Is Love.” I sometimes look at this song as a naive look at reality, but on this Christmas morning, I thought that the Beatles may just be right!

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The Purge

Posted on January 5, 2016 by - Everyday Stewardship

purgeCurrently, my house is in a state of purging. We just sold our roll-top desk we had for 20 years because it had become a magnet for STUFF and ultimately the desk was too big for our house. It was HUGE.

Next, we are getting rid of our couch that, although very comfy, is just beyond cleaning again. After that, we are unto the dining room set, a chair I inherited from my father, and more.

Basically, it is time to move on from those things that no longer serve a good purpose in our home and in our lives.

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